5 thoughts on “I am a weird person, what should I do, like alone, unwilling to socialize?”
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As a result, there are two reasons for the occurrence of this situation. 1. Inferiority, I am not good at interpersonal communication, low emotional intelligence, and a headache when they encounter something that needs to be dealt with with others. Try not to ask for people ", belongs to yourself who are afraid of seeing foreigners. 2. Pride, dismissive of interpersonal communication, and seeing through the world's elements, all of which are purposeful. Or I have a limited ability, but the book reads a lot, which leads to the incompatibility of the knowledge and action, and brought the inaction of Laozhuang to the fast -paced society of this materialist. Therefore, I do n’t feel that I ca n’t find the sound. When I see that the people around them are too low, the ideological state is too depressed. I ’m disdain with them. I ca n’t play with them. In short, there are too many psychological clothes in both aspects of these two, and they are unwilling to tell others. The excuse is that it will only make people laugh or waste time and simply digest themselves. It is fundamentally inferior, and pride is actually inferiority, because it is obviously not good but not admitted. I am afraid of being looked down upon. Self -proud is unable to have the ability. With a temper, self -confidence is capable, or has no temper. It is still interesting to find the joy of socializing. It is natural to find the fun of everything. It is interesting to be relaxed and happy in this era of hard work. Finally, remember that life is not a TV series, and there is no director to set the script for you. Therefore, whether you have done a good thing or a misunderstanding, you must say it immediately, otherwise no one understands you. In a sentence, I encouraged Jun on the Internet. "If you want to go faster, please do it alone; if you want to go farther, please go with it." By comforting this, I comforted me who is also not good at talking.
Qingqing quietly just learns Buddhism and Buddha. During the Tang Dynasty, there was a Master Yongming Yanshou. The master summarized the ten kinds of merits of the Buddha in "Wan Shan Tong Collection". After we know the merits of Buddhism, we are more confident in reading the Dharma. Then Which ten kinds of merit is. . The day and night often get the heavens and the gods and the family members are invisible. It in the "Amitabha Sutra" or other pure land classics, people who read the Buddha will be protected by the Buddha and Bodhisattva and the dragon and the ghosts. In the meditation, the person who spoke to the Buddha with his way of saying. Therefore, as long as you maintain the heart of the Buddha and read the Buddha, you can take good care of the Buddha. . The twenty -five Bodhisattva, such as Guanyin, and all bodhisattvas are often guarded with them. The knows that the Western Bliss World is the pure land of Amitabha Buddhism, such as the Great Bodhisattva such as Guanyin Bodhisattva and the Bodhisattva. Therefore, when we read the Buddha, we can get the protection of the Bodhisattva, because everyone knows that the Bodhisattva sent a wish, that is, seeking Buddhism and turning sentient beings. Like the Guanyin Bodhisattva, with thirty -two, you should have an immeasurable beings. Everyone will be protected by the bodhisattva. . The Buddha often protects the Buddha day and night. The just fits Mida Ben's wishes. Everyone knows that Amitabha has 48 wishes. As long as you read my name, you can get the blessing of Amitabha's corresponding wish. This is Mida Ben's wish. . All the hungry ghosts, if the Yasha and Rakshasa cannot be harmful; all the poisonous snake venom dragons cannot be harmed. I. When we have the merits of Buddhism, with the protection of the gods and bodhisattvas, and the blessing of Buddha light, naturally all ghosts and gods, Rakshasha, resentment thief, etc. will stay away. Those who read the Buddha will not be violated by evil beings. 5. All fires, difficulty, injustice, knife arrows, jail, 杻 杻, dying, dying, and death. The Dharma talks about "all ideal creation", which is the fate we suffer, all of which are in their hearts. If a person's heart is greedy, hatred, etc., he will be disgusting. For all beings, his good career must be a realm of blessings such as Ping An and auspiciousness. Therefore, the sentient beings who read the Buddha can change their minds. By chanting the name of the Buddha, they can correspond to Mito Hong's wish, and they will stay away from the disaster. This is also the merit of the Buddha. 6. The sin of the first place is known to be eliminated. Wen we came to this world, and we may be trapped by our own karma. Although we have done some merits in the past, so that we can get personal, but because of our ignorance, we have created countless crimes Industry. How can I eliminate karma? Read the Buddha, destroy countless felony, let alone the seven consecutive days of refinement of the Buddha. Therefore, a person who is improving the Buddha can make the evil karma from being cut or even eliminated through the merits of Buddhism and the merit of repentance, and it is easier to liberate. Seven, night dreams, or dreamed of Amitabha wins a wonderful body. Must when you do n’t read the Buddha before, right? Maybe the dreams are good or bad, it is all kinds of fantasy or desires, so after chanting the Buddha, have you ever had auspicious dream? Without other thoughts in my heart, I can call auspiciousness, with a dream of Rui Xiang. There is an old bodhisattva who has dreamed of the Buddha's golden body around me. This is auspicious dream. eight, heart is often happy, color is shiny, full of strength, auspicious. In everyone to think about it, if a person does not reverse delusion, and only in the Buddha's name, the heart is corresponding to the merit of the Buddhas, then the heart must be happy, right? Essence If a person is always happy, the natural color is shiny, and the strength is full, that is, the beginning of the Buddha is the beginning of changing our emotions, mentality, and even a dream. Slowly, it will make our body healthier from the inside out, some diseases will be cured, and even the severe illness that is difficult to treat will be improved unknowingly. . The people often respect all the people in the world. The people who are refined to the Buddha and have a Buddha in his heart, he naturally has a solemn and transcendent temperament. The Buddhas have the protection of the Buddhas and Bodhisattvas and the protection of the dragon and the heavenly guardian. The evil fate is far away. His heart will become particularly compassionate, which is kind, and he is strong in strength, his complexion is very good, and his appearance is soft. This has many merits. Will people be respecting everyone? . At the end of life, the heart is fearless. Pure land, do everything in the future, wins wonderful. The first nine types of speaking are the merits of this world. The tenth type is the ultimate purpose of our life in this life. After we were attracted by the Buddha and Bodhisattva to the Pure Land of the West, we were accompanied by Xian Sheng, can quickly become a Buddhist way, and enjoy winning music, and no longer suffer from reincarnation. The way of learning Buddhism, for example, you can learn through Buddhist content in Himalayan FM. The recommendation as follows: "Pure Land Sage Records", "Master Nebula: Life is Putting down", "Master Yin Guang said Pure Land" Buddhist history "" and so on.
This is not a weird person. It is a factor in your personality. Internal orientation, do n’t always think that you are a alien. If you want to change your 3 personality, you have to learn thicker. After participating, it will naturally change his personality after a long time.
Everyone's personality is different, you should accept yourself correctly, this is not weird. It may be that others look weird in the present society, but your essence and concept are your world. You and the outside world's continuous contact will be constructed. You can continue to include, grow up, and love yourself.
If one day you feel that you are alone for too long, just look at the world of others, I believe your world will definitely become more and more abundant ~
Why do so many people do n’t like to be alone and even fear alone?
I friends will arrange plans for myself before being alone, read a book, run, and learn English for half an hour. After a while, the vibrato is consumed alone, and there will be a sense of life out of control afterwards.
Why are you out of control?
The stimulus caused by these software gives people a constant sense of gain (the sense of gain will stimulate the brain to secrete dopamine, and dopamine is a material that makes people feel pleasant). Can't help but stop. The fundamental reason is actually our inner confusion. We do n’t know what we want to do, what we really want to do, and we do n’t want to face these. Our brain chooses to do more things.
But, do'T time the easyway out
, but never choose the relaxed road. The more we do You do n’t care enough about yourself and invest in yourself, and do n’t deal with your relationship with yourself. You need to use more energy to love yourself and listen to your voice, even if you are dazed, it is a way to face yourself.
The Zhou Xingchi once attended the wedding of a close friend and said a very classic words:
people to pursue another human beings all their lives in their lives,
I am me I can't understand,
maybe I am too interesting,
does not need to be accompanied by others,
So I wish you happiness and me in the other person Give yourself as many.
Look, we are all forcibly pitying him to miss Zhu Yin, and he just play with himself.
Try to let a person stay and do what you like to do
If not?
. Starting from reading a book,
followed the video to start with a period of fuck,
As a result, there are two reasons for the occurrence of this situation. 1. Inferiority, I am not good at interpersonal communication, low emotional intelligence, and a headache when they encounter something that needs to be dealt with with others. Try not to ask for people ", belongs to yourself who are afraid of seeing foreigners. 2. Pride, dismissive of interpersonal communication, and seeing through the world's elements, all of which are purposeful. Or I have a limited ability, but the book reads a lot, which leads to the incompatibility of the knowledge and action, and brought the inaction of Laozhuang to the fast -paced society of this materialist. Therefore, I do n’t feel that I ca n’t find the sound. When I see that the people around them are too low, the ideological state is too depressed. I ’m disdain with them. I ca n’t play with them. In short, there are too many psychological clothes in both aspects of these two, and they are unwilling to tell others. The excuse is that it will only make people laugh or waste time and simply digest themselves. It is fundamentally inferior, and pride is actually inferiority, because it is obviously not good but not admitted. I am afraid of being looked down upon. Self -proud is unable to have the ability. With a temper, self -confidence is capable, or has no temper. It is still interesting to find the joy of socializing. It is natural to find the fun of everything. It is interesting to be relaxed and happy in this era of hard work. Finally, remember that life is not a TV series, and there is no director to set the script for you. Therefore, whether you have done a good thing or a misunderstanding, you must say it immediately, otherwise no one understands you. In a sentence, I encouraged Jun on the Internet. "If you want to go faster, please do it alone; if you want to go farther, please go with it." By comforting this, I comforted me who is also not good at talking.
Qingqing quietly just learns Buddhism and Buddha.
During the Tang Dynasty, there was a Master Yongming Yanshou. The master summarized the ten kinds of merits of the Buddha in "Wan Shan Tong Collection". After we know the merits of Buddhism, we are more confident in reading the Dharma. Then Which ten kinds of merit is.
. The day and night often get the heavens and the gods and the family members are invisible.
It in the "Amitabha Sutra" or other pure land classics, people who read the Buddha will be protected by the Buddha and Bodhisattva and the dragon and the ghosts. In the meditation, the person who spoke to the Buddha with his way of saying. Therefore, as long as you maintain the heart of the Buddha and read the Buddha, you can take good care of the Buddha.
. The twenty -five Bodhisattva, such as Guanyin, and all bodhisattvas are often guarded with them.
The knows that the Western Bliss World is the pure land of Amitabha Buddhism, such as the Great Bodhisattva such as Guanyin Bodhisattva and the Bodhisattva. Therefore, when we read the Buddha, we can get the protection of the Bodhisattva, because everyone knows that the Bodhisattva sent a wish, that is, seeking Buddhism and turning sentient beings. Like the Guanyin Bodhisattva, with thirty -two, you should have an immeasurable beings. Everyone will be protected by the bodhisattva.
. The Buddha often protects the Buddha day and night.
The just fits Mida Ben's wishes. Everyone knows that Amitabha has 48 wishes. As long as you read my name, you can get the blessing of Amitabha's corresponding wish. This is Mida Ben's wish.
. All the hungry ghosts, if the Yasha and Rakshasa cannot be harmful; all the poisonous snake venom dragons cannot be harmed.
I. When we have the merits of Buddhism, with the protection of the gods and bodhisattvas, and the blessing of Buddha light, naturally all ghosts and gods, Rakshasha, resentment thief, etc. will stay away. Those who read the Buddha will not be violated by evil beings.
5. All fires, difficulty, injustice, knife arrows, jail, 杻 杻, dying, dying, and death.
The Dharma talks about "all ideal creation", which is the fate we suffer, all of which are in their hearts. If a person's heart is greedy, hatred, etc., he will be disgusting. For all beings, his good career must be a realm of blessings such as Ping An and auspiciousness. Therefore, the sentient beings who read the Buddha can change their minds. By chanting the name of the Buddha, they can correspond to Mito Hong's wish, and they will stay away from the disaster. This is also the merit of the Buddha.
6. The sin of the first place is known to be eliminated.
Wen we came to this world, and we may be trapped by our own karma. Although we have done some merits in the past, so that we can get personal, but because of our ignorance, we have created countless crimes Industry. How can I eliminate karma? Read the Buddha, destroy countless felony, let alone the seven consecutive days of refinement of the Buddha. Therefore, a person who is improving the Buddha can make the evil karma from being cut or even eliminated through the merits of Buddhism and the merit of repentance, and it is easier to liberate.
Seven, night dreams, or dreamed of Amitabha wins a wonderful body.
Must when you do n’t read the Buddha before, right? Maybe the dreams are good or bad, it is all kinds of fantasy or desires, so after chanting the Buddha, have you ever had auspicious dream? Without other thoughts in my heart, I can call auspiciousness, with a dream of Rui Xiang. There is an old bodhisattva who has dreamed of the Buddha's golden body around me. This is auspicious dream.
eight, heart is often happy, color is shiny, full of strength, auspicious.
In everyone to think about it, if a person does not reverse delusion, and only in the Buddha's name, the heart is corresponding to the merit of the Buddhas, then the heart must be happy, right? Essence If a person is always happy, the natural color is shiny, and the strength is full, that is, the beginning of the Buddha is the beginning of changing our emotions, mentality, and even a dream. Slowly, it will make our body healthier from the inside out, some diseases will be cured, and even the severe illness that is difficult to treat will be improved unknowingly.
. The people often respect all the people in the world.
The people who are refined to the Buddha and have a Buddha in his heart, he naturally has a solemn and transcendent temperament. The Buddhas have the protection of the Buddhas and Bodhisattvas and the protection of the dragon and the heavenly guardian. The evil fate is far away. His heart will become particularly compassionate, which is kind, and he is strong in strength, his complexion is very good, and his appearance is soft. This has many merits. Will people be respecting everyone?
. At the end of life, the heart is fearless. Pure land, do everything in the future, wins wonderful.
The first nine types of speaking are the merits of this world. The tenth type is the ultimate purpose of our life in this life. After we were attracted by the Buddha and Bodhisattva to the Pure Land of the West, we were accompanied by Xian Sheng, can quickly become a Buddhist way, and enjoy winning music, and no longer suffer from reincarnation.
The way of learning Buddhism, for example, you can learn through Buddhist content in Himalayan FM.
The recommendation as follows:
"Pure Land Sage Records", "Master Nebula: Life is Putting down", "Master Yin Guang said Pure Land"
Buddhist history "" and so on.
This is not a weird person. It is a factor in your personality. Internal orientation, do n’t always think that you are a alien. If you want to change your 3 personality, you have to learn thicker. After participating, it will naturally change his personality after a long time.
Everyone's personality is different, you should accept yourself correctly, this is not weird. It may be that others look weird in the present society, but your essence and concept are your world. You and the outside world's continuous contact will be constructed. You can continue to include, grow up, and love yourself.
If one day you feel that you are alone for too long, just look at the world of others, I believe your world will definitely become more and more abundant ~
Wishes to wish you it is good
Why do so many people do n’t like to be alone and even fear alone?
I friends will arrange plans for myself before being alone, read a book, run, and learn English for half an hour. After a while, the vibrato is consumed alone, and there will be a sense of life out of control afterwards.
Why are you out of control?
The stimulus caused by these software gives people a constant sense of gain (the sense of gain will stimulate the brain to secrete dopamine, and dopamine is a material that makes people feel pleasant). Can't help but stop. The fundamental reason is actually our inner confusion. We do n’t know what we want to do, what we really want to do, and we do n’t want to face these. Our brain chooses to do more things.
But, do'T time the easyway out
, but never choose the relaxed road. The more we do You do n’t care enough about yourself and invest in yourself, and do n’t deal with your relationship with yourself. You need to use more energy to love yourself and listen to your voice, even if you are dazed, it is a way to face yourself.
The Zhou Xingchi once attended the wedding of a close friend and said a very classic words:
people to pursue another human beings all their lives in their lives,
I am me I can't understand,
maybe I am too interesting,
does not need to be accompanied by others,
So I wish you happiness and me in the other person Give yourself as many.
Look, we are all forcibly pitying him to miss Zhu Yin, and he just play with himself.
Try to let a person stay and do what you like to do
If not?
. Starting from reading a book,
followed the video to start with a period of fuck,
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The meditation starts for five minutes,
It experience to pleasure and gain strength.